I Typed below text on 6th-April-2015.... what the hell was I thinking... !!
It’s easy to lay blame on someone else when things don’t go the way we have planned it. We blame others for not getting the rightful help.... we blame weather for our own gloomy feelings... we blame others' reactions to justify our own actions. We basically blame the whole damn world for the relationships we have screwed, friends we have pissed, signs we have missed, successes we couldn't achieve. We blame the circumstances for everything which didn’t go as we thought it would.
It’s easy to lay blame on someone else when things don’t go the way we have planned it. We blame others for not getting the rightful help.... we blame weather for our own gloomy feelings... we blame others' reactions to justify our own actions. We basically blame the whole damn world for the relationships we have screwed, friends we have pissed, signs we have missed, successes we couldn't achieve. We blame the circumstances for everything which didn’t go as we thought it would.
Because....it is always easy to dispense blame on someone or something else than to accept the
reality, accept that it is somehow your own fault.... might be... you have failed to fulfill your responsibilities.. may be you have not done enough.. may be you have done more than you should have done... This is not easy to introspect and reflect on .. that
there could be some other viewpoints as well. Of course there are some easy and validish “blame-able” facts but no matter what.. blaming doesn't really help! The things we blame were our own decisions in that point.. we though it was right think to do in the nick of time. This is sometimes related to
the behavior you showcased or the reactions you received.
When we think more we think that human behavior and respective reactions are two very complex
aspects of human nature; both are multi-dimensional. In any given time frame of reference it is affected in two possible ways, one, by solid almost-permanent character and second, by the current of thoughts
flowing through millions of neurons. These temporary aspects like momentarily
kicked-in pre-conceived-pre-buried-notions or desires, dilemma to stick to the righteous path or take a dip into something you despised, external- internal
personal issues or most recent responses we have got by the person you liked may alter
the responses.
Introspection, Atam-Manthan, connect with inner self could be the way to give you a different perspective ....help you realize your own thoughts behind your own course of actions and search for the plausible
reasons for other’s behavior.... what went wrong, what did you do that changed the cause of the storm or put you in the middle of it.. Sometimes it is no ones fault …
just plain bad luck or wrong timing. May be you come out with some answers which make you a bit more unruffled and a little better human being in some sense.
